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ATTITUDES AND ATTITUDE MANAGEMENT
The feedback in this section discusses your expressed attitudes and how they can affect your performance. It is extremely important for people to be confident and have a good approach to managing their lifestyles. A positive outlook is also important as it allows an person to see the positive aspects of any situation. By seeing the 'up side' of any situation, an person sees opportunities to succeed rather than excuses for failure.
You are quite confident which allows you to believe that you are able to handle most situations through your own efforts. Your profile indicates that you generally accept responsibility for your own performance but you could also benefit from regular reinforcement and reminders of your strengths.
Developmental Suggestions
- Build greater awareness of your own strengths by identifying specific examples of things that you have done well and that you would like to keep doing well.
- Build your self confidence by dwelling on your strengths and focusing on the good feelings that you have about yourself.
- Be more aware of your strengths so that you aree able to take use them more often to be successful.
- When you succeed at something, make a mental note of it and reflect on the reasons why you were successful.
- If you are not performing well, move the focus to those things that you do well. Provide yourself with more opportunities to succeed rather than creating unattainable goals.
- Take responsibility for your own performance. When you perform well, be aware of why you did. If you do not perform well make sure that you used your strengths effectively and evaluate your growth opportunities in an unemotional, factual way.
- Build a reputation as a winner by dressing appropriately, avoiding negative comments and approaching your peers in a positive manner.
- Learn to make confident statements without bragging.
BUILDING SELF CONFIDENCE (Techniques that work with virtually everyone)
- Learn to accept (and deliver) compliments by identifying a specific achievement or quality. (e.g. You are a hard worker. That was a very good shot.)
- Silence the internal critic (learn from mistakes but do not dwell on them).
- Silence the external critic by learning how to deal with criticism:
Seek clarification so that criticism becomes useful or critic stops
Accept or reject without debate and episode will pass quickly
Avoid least effective approach which is to confront critic
- Become consciously competent (aware of your strengths) first and aware of growth opportunities second
- Learn to report the facts (l made an error) but not judge them (I am a loser).
- Learn to market yourself by creating expectations, dressing appropriately, avoiding negativity and other positive approaches that help you to see yourself as successful.
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