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Some of your answers to the questions about your Stress Control could legitimately be called Growth Opportunities. Also, continue to build on any Strengths outlined above in order to enhance the level of Stress Control that you have already. By continuing to do what you are already doing well, you will be more able to benefit from the Growth Opportunities that were identified by the following questions.
Waiting does not bother me.
People usually get irritable when having to wait for two reasons: (1) they feel that they are being disrespected or controlled; and (2) they may be angry at themselves for ending up in that situation. To avoid these feelings, take back control by being 'smart enough' to plan for such situations and use your time effectively while you are waiting. Turn the situation to your advantage which might include just enjoying the time to relax and renew your energy.
I find myself waking up earlier in the morning than I plan to.
You wake up thinking about something because, during sleep, your non-conscious mind has decided you need to give that situation extra attention. If this happens often, do two things: (1) keep a notepad beside your bed and jot that situation down with few words about when and how you plan to take action on it tomorrow; 2) use simple breathing-based relaxation for several minutes to get back to sleep.
I express my feelings as openly as I should, rather than holding them inside.
Most often we put a lid on our feelings because we don't want to feel vulnerable, weak or incompetent. Sometimes that's the right choice. However, to avoid that becoming your overall, very stressful style, try this. Pick a troubling feeling that you'd really like to share and get feedback on. Then ask someone you respect and trust if they would share their advice with you about how you could express that feeling in a way that would be helpful to all concerned. You'll feel better. And, they'll be glad you asked.
I tend to anticipate others in conversation (interrupting, finishing sentences for the other person), rather than listening well and letting the other person finish speaking.
Learn to avoid interrupting others in mid-sentence by consciously holding back your own speech until the person has completed their thought. Commit to doing this with someone whom you tend to interrupt frequently and you will enjoy the feelings of having gained greater control over yourself (the best control there is). Gradually, your new ability will extend to others whom you used to interrupt.
I feel critical of others.
Criticism of others is a symptom of being under stress ourselves. To control your critical thoughts, do two things: Practice relaxation breathing [long, slow out-breaths] to let go of some of your own tension. Remind yourself that 95% of those who irritate us are not intending to do so.
Notes-to-Myself for my Personal Action Plan
The most important things I've learned from this section of StressPro™ for improving my Stress Control are ...
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